I’m here to help you enjoy being more playful, vibrant and grounded as a parent.

Hi, I’m Shruti Kumar

I believe the way we are parented shapes far more than childhood. It influences how we see ourselves, build relationships, navigate conflict, trust others, and understand our own worth.

That is why this work matters so deeply to me.

When I became a mother, I discovered that parenting is one of life’s greatest invitations to grow. It is beautiful, humbling, exhausting, and deeply transformative. Our children delight us, stretch us, and often reveal the parts of ourselves that are asking to be met with greater compassion.

To me, one of parenting’s greatest gifts is the opportunity to raise ourselves while we raise our children. We become more aware of the stories we carry, more intentional in the values we choose, and more present in the relationships that matter most.

When children grow up feeling seen, safe, soothed, and secure, they carry those experiences

into every relationship they build. They become adults who know their worth, care deeply for

others, and contribute meaningfully to the world around them.

My own journey into this work unfolded while building a life far from home. I moved from India to the Netherlands in 2015, and like many of the families I now support, I experienced the joy and complexity of raising children without the support system I had imagined. Along the way came postpartum depression, PTSD, and life transitions that deepened my understanding of how profoundly our own wellbeing shapes the way we show up for the people we love.

Before becoming a certified parent coach, I completed my Master’s in International Law at Leiden University and worked as an international lawyer in The Hague. Today, my work brings together child development, attachment research, neuroscience, mindfulness, yoga, and practical tools to help parents build relationships rooted in connection, emotional safety, and mutual respect.

More than anything, I want parents to experience the kind of relationship they imagined when they first held their child. One where they genuinely enjoy being together. One where boundaries and connection exist side by side. One where repair feels possible and everyone in the family has room to be authentically themselves.

When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me on my yoga mat, wandering through a forest, tending to my plants, or listening to my two children ask wonderfully impossible questions about the moon, the stars, and the universe.

Thank you for being here.

From overwhelmed to empowered

A collection of stories from parents who found more calm, confidence, and connection through coaching.

  • "The simple tools taught over this session are already making a huge difference in my relationship with kids and husband. I feel empowered in my parenting journey. I completed this parenting course with Shruti recently and what an eye-opener it has been in my parenting journey. Being the mum of 2 active boys, I had been struggling to be an empowered parent and this course has provided me with simple tools that will help me in every stage of life. The best part is how Shruti took me on this journey with practical examples from her parenting life. The way she seamlessly incorporates real-life situations and tools is quite commendable and she prepared us for our biggest struggles. A big Thank you for giving us life skills and empowering our parenting journey."

    —Archana R.

  • "Working with Shruti has really helped my family and me. My kids' bond has strengthened to the point where they call each other best friends and want to spend time together. We've focused a lot of energy in giving them space and direction to solve their own problems & also how to say how they're feeling. I am proud of the breathing breaks I take, the self awareness and compassion, the way l've been able to teach my youngest how to communicate rather than scream. There is a ton of growth that has gone on, and it has made all the heaviness of the world more bearable because at home we're doing ok!"

    —Dana B.

  • "Shruti is an empathetic and supportive coach. She was relatable right from the start which paved the way for a safe space to frankly talk about my daughter, without being judged. Having this space helped me immensely as Shruti made sure I had a smooth start. She gave me a new perspective on my daughter's challenging behaviour and helped me find new ways of communicating with her. I love the way she can turn a tricky situation into a playful one and that’s one thing which always works with toddlers. Thank you for giving me the hope and push to keep trying everyday."

    —Preethi P.

  • "I recently attended Shruti’s workshop on helping parents navigate conversations around sex and puberty, and I cannot recommend it highly enough. What could have been an awkward or uncomfortable topic was handled with such thoughtfulness, clarity, and respect. Shruti created a safe, judgment-free space for open discussion, which made all the difference. Not only did the workshop provide practical tools such as conversation starters and age appropriate language to use when talking to kids about these important topics, but it also addressed common fears and misconceptions parents often have. I walked away feeling more confident, informed, and supported. It was also incredibly reassuring to hear from other parents and realize we’re all facing similar challenges. This workshop should be required for every parent—it equips you not just with knowledge, but with the confidence to be a reliable, approachable guide for your child during such a critical phase of their development. Thank you for such a valuable and empowering experience!"

    —Kate I.

  • "I was struggling to know what to do in the moment with my 4 year old. I wanted to implement positive parenting, but didn't know how to do it in the moment. I felt a little lost, especially since it is not the norm. Shruti has provided me with so much coaching and guidance and helped me feel so much more confident in my ability to parent from a place that feels good. I have experienced more connection and less meltdowns (from me and my child) since I started working with her. It has given me a sense of not being alone in this whole parenting thing and has helped me show up more as the parent I want to be. Joining this community has been such a gift for myself, as well as my family."

    —Kristi C.

  • "I attended a workshop by Shruti on mindful communication and it was super informative. It helped me reflect on my challenges with mindful communication and I could make a shift in how I communicate with my daughters. Her work/content is both motivating and deeply anchoring – she helped me to stay focused on how I can thrive in my everyday communication. The biggest game changer for me was the ability to communicate compassionately and move from making demands to making clear requests."

    —Lakshmi V.

  • "Learning about the PEACE process has been a game changer for my relationship with my kids. I love the collaboration of coming up with agreements together. I was threatening them if they didn't do what was expected. I always felt backed into a corner when they were having a hard time with a transition. I now feel empowered to help guide and encourage my kids toward a common goal and a more peaceful transitions. Holding firm boundaries seems so much more doable when I know my kiddo and I have made agreements beforehand. I'm able to be more consistent and less "explosive" while upholding expectations."

    —Megan L.

  • "I am really glad I could attend Shruti’s workshop on how to talk to kids about puberty, sex, and online safety. It was practical, thoughtful, and delivered in a very warm and approachable way. Shruti created a space where it felt safe to ask questions, and share experiences - something that’s not always easy when it comes to topics like these. She offered helpful examples and conversation starters that made me feel more confident about having these talks at home. And indeed I could use them with my son only a few days later. I especially liked how the workshop focused on building trust and connection with our kids, rather than just “getting the information across.” It was a good reminder that these conversations don’t have to be perfect -they just have to be open and ongoing. I’d definitely recommend this workshop to other parents or caregivers. It’s reassuring, supportive, and full of useful ideas."

    —Johanna B.